I know there are problems in myself. Things that I need to over come, or aspects of my personality that I need to curb. When bad news hits, I need to not wallow in my little pity part of one, or immediately complain to my husband as it only put more pressure on him. We are luck and privileged and instead of focusing on a minor disappointment I need to count my blessings that so many other things have happened to enrich our life. Such a positive speech..now if only I could put it into practice!